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When it comes to love
the old clichГ© does usually turn out to be kinda true: The heart wants what it wants
and that doesn’t always (or even usually) fall within the bounds of what you’d want or expect in a partner. One of the more interesting romantic scenarios
along with people from highly different cultures
religions or backgrounds pairing up
is when people who are decades apart in age fall for one another. “Partners from different generations may have different cultural reference points and values and polar opposite tastes in music and film and even friends and also have different approaches to the sex life
” says Dr.

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Fran Walfish
a relationship psychotherapist and author based in Beverly Hills. Still
with research showing that typical marriages still have about a 50 percent chance of lasting
who cares how old each partner is if the relationship is working out?! Related story Expert Advice for Calming Relationship Anxiety. A study in Evolutionary Psychology found that most singles prefer to date those within their general age group — even the ones who modern stereotypes indicate would prefer a partner of a different age
like
say
middle-aged straight men going for younger women. You have to admit that it probably keeps things a lot simpler in certain ways if you are close in age. We wanted to find out from real women what being in an LTR with someone significantly younger or older is really like. Here
four women open up about their experiences. Going way younger. Bonny
42
of Vancouver likes dating younger people. Her last two partners were 11 years younger
and before that
13 years younger. “In my case
I prefer a younger partner for a variety of reasons: I look very young myself
I find we’re in a similar place in our lives and honestly don’t notice the difference.” Like most relationships with large age gaps
a common challenge is how you both appear as a couple to society. “I’ve had several experiences where folks thought I was significantly younger than my partner — one of whom was 13 years younger than me — and other experiences where dating men my own age had people thinking they were my father!” says Bonny. And ultimately
she believes it won’t affect your relationship happiness as long as you’re both into each other. “I’ve yet to date anyone more than 10 years older
but it’s a mindset thing for me
and I just don’t meet men my age or older who want what I want. If I did
I’d surely date them
” she says. Claudia
49
of Boston always dated people her own age until she met her husband of three years
who’s 17 years younger than her. At first
she thought it might just be about the great sex after a series of failed relationships
but it ended up being more than that. “We met at a party
and while I told myself I should’ve been going for the people my own age
I felt more attracted to and enjoyed spending most of the night with the bartender
” she says. “He was more mature than most guys his age at the time. I fell in love with his energy and open-mindedness. He wasn’t bitter or arrogant like most of the people my own age I met. I was worried that over time
it would feel more like a mother-son relationship
but now I know I was meant to be at that party for a reason!” Sounds like a fairy tale
but Claudia admits there were and still are challenges at times. “To this day
I don’t think his parents still approve of us
but they’re a lot more accepting than when we first met
” she says. “And my friends still think I’m having a midlife crisis
even though they love hanging out with us. I think our relationship will forever be questioned
but in the end
we love each other
and I don’t care about much else.” Rightly so! Dating much older. Barbara
31
of New York City is 29 years younger than her husband of two years. They met and fell in love thanks in part to their shared interest in motorcycles and cars. “I knew Mark was older
but it wasn’t until months after we met that his actual age came up. He admitted that he was afraid that sooner or later I’d leave him because of his age
” she says. Mark’s age didn’t matter to Barbara
but she worried what her family and friends would think. “When I had to tell my parents how old my future husband was
I was afraid they would object
but it turns out they were eager to meet him and made him feel like family right off the bat.” Barbara loves the fact that she and Mark have so much in common
and their shared competitiveness and adventurous personalities keep the relationship fun. However
there are of course some challenges to her May-December relationship. “I totally don’t get his old-school music and he laughs at my taste in songs
” she says. “But one thing that does scare and upset me is the thought that I’m not going to have him with me when I get older
” she says. Anne
57
of Charlottesville
Virginia
is 15 years younger than her husband and says the relationship works well despite their age difference. “We come from similar backgrounds and worked together
so we had a professional life to share.













my boyfriend is 10 years older than me


my boyfriend is 10 years younger than me