Older man having sex with younger woman

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What does a 28-year-old woman want with a man in his 40s — other than his money? After that
though
comes the question I inevitably get asked most of all: What's the sex like? Of course
the question comes as no surprise to me
it's natural to wonder how sex plays into the equation. When it comes to age-gap relationships
a dynamic widely debated and even at the center of the latest season of "White Lotus
the curiosity around sex makes sense. Plus, according to a 2022 Ipsos poll, nearly four in ten Americans have previously dated someone with a large age gap, and 57 percent of singles say they would be open to dating someone 10-plus years older or younger. In a time when different relationship dynamics are being more openly talked about and folks can take ownership of their pleasure and sexuality in ways that have never existed before, finding what works for you may come to mean partnering up with someone 15 years older (or younger) than you. Experts Featured in This Article. Justin Lehmiller, PhD, is a psychologist and senior research fellow at The Kinsey Institute. Tara Suwinyattichaiporn, PhD, also known as Dr. Tara, is a Kinsey-certified sexologist and relationship coach. Sex researcher Justin Lehmiller, PhD, says that it can be hard to paint broad strokes because dynamics between couples can vary based on factors like the size of the age gap or the baseline level of desire for sex. People tend to project a lot of assumptions onto age-gap relationships
such as assuming that older partners are going to have lower libidos or that age differences necessarily create a dominant-submissive dynamic
Dr. Lehmiller tells PS. However
the reality is that there's vast individual variability
and different age-gap relationships might have very different sexual dynamics." Although there is a stereotype that the older partner in an age-gap relationship calls the shots sexually
the same Ipsos study found this to be more myth than fact
showing that 59 percent of couples said they initiate sex equally. In my marriage
one might naturally assume that I am the one with the higher sex drive because I'm in my 20s
but in actuality
we're pretty equal there. That said
that might not be true for every age-gapper. Aside from dealing with the assumptions and stereotypes that come with an age gap
there are real benefits to sex outside of your age demographic. A 2024 Ipsos study from this year found that among women who have dated younger men and men who have dated older women
sexual satisfaction and fulfillment
as well as fun and enjoyment in the relationship
were rated good to excellent. "I have heard from many people in age-gap relationships who say they're having the best sex of their lives
Dr. Lehmiller says. Sometimes it's the younger person saying that being with an older
more experienced partner is great because they're sexually confident
good at sex
and invested in providing pleasure. Other times
it's an older partner with a high libido who appreciates being with a younger partner who can 'keep up.'" Drew
45
is in a relationship with a 31-year-old woman. He says he enjoys being with his younger partner because she is more in tune with her sexuality and pleasure — a big jump from his experiences with women of his age. For him
choosing a younger partner wasn't just about the novelty
but more about being with someone with intimate knowledge of their desires and how to communicate them. For Caitlin
25
who is seriously dating a 38-year-old
having sex with someone older has given her the ability to reap the rewards of an experienced partner while also learning more about her own sexual expression. Instead of having to tip-toe around her partner sexually
like in her past relationships with men her age
being in an age-gap relationship has given her a new sense of confidence. These stories aren't unlike mine. Before meeting my now-husband
I had never been with a male partner with whom I could openly share my desires or let myself surrender sexually. I was always so uptight
and rather than exploring what made me feel good
I worried about putting on a show. The first time we hooked up was the first time I felt seen and cared for sexually
and I attribute a big part of that to his age and life experiences. Of course
no relationship is perfect
and there can be some downsides to sex in a large age-gap relationship
too. Sexologist Tara Suwinyattichaiporn
PhD
also known as Dr. Tara
says differences in sexual experiences can lead to disconnection
where one partner may desire fast-paced
exciting sex while the other craves deep
passionate
sensual
and slow encounters. The age of both partners can also influence how open they are to different types of sexual exploration — and that may not always line up. "The main downsides to sex in age-gap relationships that I sometimes hear about are when a health issue arises that makes sex difficult or impossible or when desire lacks
Dr. Lehmiller says. These issues can
of course
emerge in any relationship
whether there's an age gap or not. But when one partner is substantially older than the other
these issues may be more likely to emerge or they may happen with greater frequency." Olivia
42
once dated a man who was 28. When it came to their sex life
the only downside was that she began to experience pain during sex
and ultimately
it made her feel like she couldn't match his desire. It's important to remember
however
that sex will ebb and flow in any relationship. The trick
it seems
is to be willing to ebb and flow with it
allowing yourself to learn more about yourself and your partner. "I grew a lot as a sexual being during our relationship." "I was in a sexual relationship with someone in their fifties when I was in my twenties and I would say I appreciated what my older sexual partner brought to our relationship and my life
Dr. Tara says. I was able to learn to feel more confident in bed. He was comfortable giving me feedback so I felt like I grew a lot as a sexual being during our relationship." Though there's room for growth
conversations around pleasure and sex — and not just penetrative sex – are taking place more frequently thanks to access to other perspectives via social media
more resources widely available online
and more inclusive language and terms to describe sex that exist now that didn't even just 15 years ago. It feels as though there is much more room to expand
no matter what age you or your partner are. For myself
as someone who speaks openly about and has been in an age-gap relationship for over five years
it seems clear that I (and my partner) are continually learning more about ourselves
sexually and beyond
no matter our ages. Being with someone outside of our respective age brackets only amplifies that. So
what's the sex like?













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