Dating someone 15 years older

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Article about dating someone 15 years older:
If you’re a younger guy
you can be labelled a playboy
fetishist
or victim. If you’re a younger woman dating an older man
you get stereotyped as a gold digger or someone with daddy issues. But for Avaneesh Arya
a 33-year-old real estate manager living in Pune
India
none of that mattered when he fell in love with a senior at work who is six years older than him.

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“We were compatible from the word �go
’” he said. “When I asked her out
it seemed like the most natural thing.” Arya was only too happy to see that his parents had no objection to him marrying an older woman. This was certainly an exception in a country where men being the younger partner in a marriage is often considered taboo. “My happiness was all that mattered to them. My friends opposed it until the end
but I believed in our love and still do.” That’s not to say that age gaps don’t pose challenges as most relationships do. What we seek out of life changes with time
be it money
stability
career milestones
or just what makes us happy. Heck
your partner might not even get the pop culture references you make. But love is love
even if the most popular band when your sweetie was a teenager was Aerosmith. To be able to better navigate your own intergenerational romance
we asked experts and those in age-gap relationships themselves about how to bridge the gap. Communicate what’s important to you. “He understands me on a molecular level
” Heena Shaikh
a 24-year-old entrepreneur based in New Delhi
said about her 38-year-old husband whom she met on a dating app. “And yet
we have to try our best to be on the same page when it comes to how we felt that day about the smallest of things.” Shaikh believes that open communication about not just your day and goals in life but also your insecurities can go a long way in making it work. “The idea that a couple shouldn’t go to bed without completely resolving their point of conflict can be quite unfair. You can’t put a deadline to a resolution. But you can assure each other of persistent dialogue.” Himanshu
a 32-year-old multidisciplinary artist based in Mumbai
echoed the sentiment. He was the older one in a relationship that lasted over a year with a man seven years younger. “There needs to be immense conversation on a daily basis
” he said.