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Article about why women marry older men:
On average
a man choosing a woman five years older is marrying his physiological equal
making it more likely they will age together. Note: For those who might wonder why this post focuses only on heterosexual men and women
it is because many of the issues in marrying an older person relate to pregnancy or health and there are significant gender differences in age-related health and sexuality. Many men are attracted to younger women.

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Mainly it's a visceral
physical thing
although some men may value a younger woman because she is more likely to look up to him
if only because he may have advanced more in his career. But there are reasons why men should consider older women as potential marriage partners. I will admit I'm biased: My wife is five years older than I am and we've been contentedly together for 46 years now. Sexual compatibility. Alfred Kinsey's classic work on sexuality concluded that men's sexual hormones peak at 18
and women's in their early 30s. Of course
factors other than hormones affect sexuality—for example
being experienced at sex—but a man increases his chances of sexual compatibility by marrying an older woman. Maturity in the relationship. Having lived longer
a person is more likely to have maturity that comes with age: not to fight so much about trivia
not as likely to have an affair
having gotten that out of her system. Marrying an older woman
on average
means marrying a more mature person. Maturity in parenting. Parenting is far more difficult and stressful than many people realize. It requires maturity and equanimity to consistently set limits but not excessive ones
remain calm
and collaboratively solve problems with your child. An older person is more likely to have that maturity than a 20-something. Likely to be further in her career. As mentioned
older people have had more time to advance in their careers. So marrying an older woman
on average
not only increases the chances she'll contribute more money to the family income
she'll be in a better position to offer career advice and maybe even help her husband land a better job. Plus
having an experienced career woman as a mate allows confidential career advice that's less likely to come from peers. Health compatibility. Women live five years longer than men
and men die earlier of nine of the top ten leading causes of death. The research suggests this is caused by biology
not lifestyle. So
on average
a man choosing a woman five years older is marrying his physiological equal. Why might that matter? At age 80
the average man is moribund or dead. There now are more than four widows for every widower. If an 80-year-old man is married to a 75-year-old
physiologically 70
even if she still loves him
she may feel he's an albatross and he may feel he's a burden. In contrast
if he had married someone five years older than him
they're more likely to be health peers and to fade away together. Earlier on life's conveyor belt
the typical 65-year-old man has at least one significant health issue.













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