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The internet had thoughts. A Cuban American writer goes viral with her views in “The Case for Marrying an Older Man
” which many on social media said was about marrying someone who was rich. April 1
2024
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By Raul A. Reyes. When she was 20 years old and a junior at Harvard College
Grazie Sophia Christie had an epiphany. She could study hard and diligently pursue her “ideal existence” though years of work and effort. Or she “could just marry it early.” Christie chose the latter. In a column for New York magazine’s The Cut
the Cuban American editor and writer extolled the value of marrying an older
wealthier man as a shortcut to the life she desired. Christie’s March 27 story went viral
topping the magazine’s “most popular” list and inspiring hundreds of overwhelmingly negative comments online and on social media. As Miami New Times described it
“The essay hit the internet with a virtual thud heard round the world.” Readers were taken aback by myriad aspects of Christie’s florid essay
which runs nearly 4
000 words. Though she was an undergraduate
Christie lugged “a heavy suitcase of books each Saturday to the Harvard Business School
” which she felt offered the best options for a suitable mate. “I had high breasts
most of my eggs
plausible deniability when it came to purity
a flush ponytail
a pep in my step that had yet to run out
she wrote. Older men still desired those things.” She crashed an event at the Harvard Business School and met her future husband when she was 20
and they married four years later. Many readers were struck by the fact that Christie had the benefit of an elite education — she also completed a fellowship at Oxford University — yet chose to enter into an unequal marriage. “My husband isn’t my partner. He’s my mentor
my lover
and
only in certain contexts
my friend
” she writes. “I’ll never forget it
how he showed me around our first place like he was introducing me to myself. This is the wine you’ll drink
where you’ll keep your clothes
we vacation here
this is the other language we’ll speak
you’ll learn it and I did.” Christie
now 27
writes that she enjoys time “to read
to walk central London and Miami and think in delicious circles.” There is
Christie writes
a downside to her monied existence: “I live in an apartment whose rent he pays and that shapes the freedom with which I can ever be angry with him. He doesn’t have to hold it over my head
it just floats there
complicating usual shorthands to explain dissatisfaction.” By marrying so young — although as many social media users pointed out
her husband is only 10 years older — Christie was able to leave a “lucrative but deadening spreadsheet job to write full-time
without having to live like a writer.” A recurring theme in the viral response to Christie’s article
ostensibly about age-gap relationships
is that it should have been titled “The Case for Marrying a Rich Man.” Christie’s transactional approach to marriage and relationships resonated — negatively — with readers. An online parody of her original piece has already been posted by the literary magazine McSweeney’s. Her words have been dissected by a columnist at Slate
who called it “bad advice for most human beings
at least if what most human beings seek are meaningful and happy lives.” Online
people who commented on Christie’s essay called it “an insult to women of any age
” “a sad piece of writing
” and “pitiful in so many ways.” Some readers wondered if the article was a satire or a joke. One of the kinder comments on New York magazine’s website said: “This is one of the most embarrassing things I have ever read. I am truly mortified for the writer.” Christie has so far not responded to media requests for interviews
and several attempts by NBC News to contact her were unsuccessful. Her Instagram account was recently switched from public to private. According to her personal website
Christie is editor-in-chief of a new publication
The Miami Native
“a serious magazine about an unserious city.” Her website’s bio page
which appears to have been disabled
previously stated that she was “writing a novel between Miami
London
sometimes France.” Christie grew up in Miami. Her parents
Miami New Times has reported
are prominent in Florida’s conservative Catholic community. Her mother was appointed to the state Board of Education in March 2022. A senior fellow for The Catholic Association
she hosts a radio show
“Conversations with Consequences
” on the Eternal Word Television Network. Her father is a physician and an anti-abortion activist who
according to his website
lectures regularly on Catholic social issues
particularly marriage
family
and the dignity of life.” Raul A. Reyes. Raul A. Reyes
a lawyer
is a member of the USA Today Board of Contributors.